Galentine’s Day Dates

It is the month of love. Love is shown in various forms and come in a variety of relationships whether it be significant other, familial, or friendships. It’s the perfect time to show your love to an often underrated relationship, your best gal pal. Don’t forget your lady friend this month of caring and sharing. Some much needed girl time can be found in these fun Galentine’s dates.


Belly dancing can be a cool way to spend your afternoon together. This is possibly one of the few times it is socially acceptable to loosen up and shake the belly your mama gave you. Aalim Bellydance Academy has an intro class on February 13th at 8pm and 14th 6:30pm for all novices and beginners. It’s only $10 or free if it’s your first time. Aalim has hip scarves for you to borrow so you can shimmy while bonding through dance.


If you’re in more of a sit and chill mood after a hard days work then this mini sign workshop may be more your style. For $35 Board and Brush will supply the tools for you and your bestie to each complete a mini sign that you’ll want to hang on your wall at home. Held on Tuesday February 13th at 7pm. Book quickly, seats fill up fast. Reserve your spot here by February 10th.


Who needs to buy when you can make your own floral arrangement for your lady love. Bumble BFF is hosting a floral arrangement class at New Leaf Florist so you can create a valentine of your very own. Take your friend to a fresh evening of flowers, wine and light snacks that will cost you both nothing at all. Class will be Thursday Feb. 8th from 6-8pm.


There is no Galentine’s without brunch. It is a cold hard fact. The YWCA is supporting ladies by providing a beautiful brunch spread that will include mimosas and a photo booth to capture the day. Its February 10th from 10am-11:30am. Tickets are $35, 2 for $65, or 3 for $95 so you can bring multiple friends along for the ride. No other fundraising than purchasing the tickets, just pure fun and relaxation with amazing women.


The month of love isn’t only about your life partner;
it’s also about your partners in crime.




Easy Instant Pot Soups for Winter

It’s the perfect time of year for staying indoors, drinking mulled wine and reading books that you’ve been meaning to get to. With cold weather comes the best hot recipes that satisfy the soul and nothing does that better than a hearty warm soup. These recipes will kick start your winter watch-fest or read-in.


Simple Veggie and Beef:
This easy recipe will take only 20 minutes and then be ready to enjoy. 

  • 2 pounds ground beef or ground turkey
  • ½ medium onion, diced
  • 2 cups fresh or frozen Lima beans
  • 2 cups frozen mixed vegetables
  • 2 cups frozen corn
  • 3 cans of diced tomatoes
  • 2 cups water
  • Salt and pepper to taste
  1. Set your Instant pot to sauté setting.  Cook meat and onions until brown and onions are soft.
  2. Add all the other ingredients to the Instant pot.
  3. Add lid and set to sealing.
  4. Click the manual button and set the time for 4 minutes. Allow it to naturally release the pressure for 5 minutes and then do a quick release
  5. Remove lid, stir, and add more salt and pepper to taste.
  6. Serve hot with your favorite rolls and enjoy!


zuppa toscana

Zuppa Toscana:
I don’t know about you but I am obsessed with Italian soups. They get it right every time. One of my personal favorites is Zuppa Toscana. The flavor and potatoes make for a satisfying dinner.

  • 2 Tbsp Olive Oil
  • 2 lbs Hot Italian Sausage, Use 1 hot and one mild if you don’t like spice
  • 3 Strips of Thick Cut Smoky Bacon, chopped
  • 1 Large Onion, chopped
  • 1 tsp Oregano, dried
  • 5 Cloves of Garlic, minced
  • 4-6 Medium Potatoes, halved and sliced 1/4 inch thick
  • 6 cups Chicken Broth, low sodium
  • 1 Bunch of Kale** chopped, with rib removed
  • 1 1/2 cups Heavy Cream
  1. Turn the Instant Pot to Sauté mode, and when it says Hot, add the olive oil.
  2. Add the sausage and brown it, stirring a few times. If you can get a good browning on it the flavor will be even better! Add the chopped bacon. Stir. Add the onions, stir them in.
  3. Add the oregano. When the onions start to look translucent, add the minced garlic, or add using a garlic press, and stir. Pour in the broth, stirring, and make sure you scrape the bottom of the pot to get up any brown bits. Add the potatoes.
  4. After adding the potatoes, check to make sure the contents don’t go over the Max Fill line marked on the inner liner. Cancel Sauté mode.
  5. Close the lid, set the steam release knob to Sealing.
  6. Set to Manual (or Pressure Cook), and choose 5 minutes* (High Pressure).
  7. After cooking cycle ends, allow a 10 minute NPR (Natural Pressure Release).
  8. Manually release the rest of the steam and when the pin in the lid drops, open the lid.
  9. Add in the kale, (or thawed spinach, if using) and stir well. Cover and let heat through for 5 minutes or so to soften the kale. If using spinach, just stir it in and proceed to the next step. Stir in the heavy cream. Serve!



broc cheddar soup 2

Broccoli Cheddar Soup:
A classic that is rich and gratifying. This is practically the only thing I order when at Panera. It’s too good to pass up. This is a Panera copycat so by making it at home I can save a lot of money.

  • 8oz cheddar cheese
  • 1 pound fresh broccoli chopped
  • 1 small onion chopped
  • 3 cups chicken broth
  • 2 cups milk or heavy cream
  • 1 cup shredded carrots
  • 2 tbs franks red hot sauce (optional)
  1. Place chopped onion, carrots, broccoli, and chicken broth in the Pot. Place on Manual high pressure for 15 minutes.
  2. Do a quick release and stir in milk or heavy cream place pot back on saute until comes to a low boil about 5 minutes. Stir in cheese and hot sauce.
  3. Serve with bread or crackers.

Soups are the go-to for a night at home before a evening of Netflix and board games. These will start your evening off right with old recipes that can create some new traditions.











New Year, New House

It’s already the New Year people and it’s time for big ideas and big changes. There is the one thing that has been on your mind for a while now but can’t seem to get started. Now is the time. Those homes you have been eyeballing secretly, following the buyer’s apps, and drooling over those historic district houses, well now is the time to act.

Make your New Year’s resolution to treat yourself
to a well deserved new home.
You’ve survived through 2017 so you’ve earned it.


Why is the New Year a good time to buy? Tax Deductions. Start this year off right with huge tax deductions that are ready to be taken advantage of. Next year you will thank yourself while filing in February. I know it seems like a long way off now but so did the end of 2017, am I right?


In addition to the usual perks of buying, the holidays and New Year make everyone a little more jolly. The freshness of the New Year may make people nicer as you start your journey into purchasing. Your real estate agent will be more attentive due to slow traffic; the seller may be easier to negotiate with in the spirit of the season. YOU will be less stressed and more easy-going in light of the exciting prospects of ownership.


Not many people shop for houses this season so many sit on the market for a long time. This will save you money by getting a great deal in a slow market. Sellers will be thrilled to negotiate and sell to you after waiting a spell on a bid.


It’s better than renting. On rentals you are essentially burning your money each month. Buying is an investment that will eventually make you money if you ever decide to sell your home.

Make your New Year work for you, make your new year’s resolution to own.




Fizz the Season

This year has gone by so fast. It’s almost hard to believe a new year is about to begin. Now more than ever is our chance to slow down and enjoy the moment with our loved ones. Relax and let loose a little bit. These festive beverages will help you unwind after a long day and be able to tolerate your nephews playing their new Christmas drum set. Thanks a lot, Santa.


Pomegranate Mimosa will look oh so elegant in your hand as you pretend you’re in an Audrey Hepburn holiday. This simple cocktail is ¼ pomegranate juice and ¾ champagne. Scoop a few frozen pomegranate seeds on top for visual effects and a lightly chilled delight.


It’s not a holiday without Christmas Sangria. In a large pitcher, stir together 2 bottles of Pinot Grigio or Chardonnay wine, ¾ sparkling apple cider, ¼ cup sugar, ¼ cup cranberries halved and 1 cup cranberries whole, 1 Granny Smith apple chopped, and 3 Rosemary sprigs. Refrigerate for 4 hours before serving.


A Traditional Wassail Bowl will surely spice up a quiet evening. Made with a half pound of sugar, one teaspoon of nutmeg, 7 -12oz bottles of Light Beer, and one half pint of Sherry. Mix ingredients and let sit at room temp for 3 hours. Before serving, garnish glasses with apples roasted in sugar and spices as well as lemon or apples dipped in cinnamon. This one increases jolliness by 100% as your cheeks redden.


Peppermint Punch is good for those who have a sweet tooth but cant partake in alcoholic refreshment. Blend 2 cups of eggnog and 5 large scoops of peppermint ice cream in a blender until creamy. Combine in a punch bowl with club soda and you have a minty treat for kids and adults. Add crushed candy cane to the rims if you’re feeling extra. If only adults in the room then you can substitute traditional spiked eggnog or include peppermint schnapps.

Warm Hot Apple Cider

Hot Apple Cider is a must have for any seasonal event. It is my absolute favorite drink for a cold day. This super easy recipe will take minutes but give lifetime memories. One gallon of Apple Cider, one cup of orange juice, 4 cinnamon sticks, 2 teaspoons whole cloves, 1 teaspoon whole allspice. Combine all ingredients in a slow cooker for and hour and remove spices before serving. Include Butterscotch Schnapps, caramel vodka, or a spiced rum of your choosing for a boost.

If the weather outside is frightful, stay in and get snowed.







We’re All Wrapped Up

We’re only a handful of days away from one of the biggest holidays of the year. Everything is so festive and exciting except for the one thing that most people procrastinate until the last minute, wrapping the gifts. Instead of opting for the boring red and green paper, get adventurous because wrapping doesn’t have to be tedious. It can be fun, just try this.


Black and White Christmas. Go for black wrapping paper with white lettering. White chalk markers can accomplish the written portion and you can send little notes to your loved ones this way from Santa or their favorite parents. It’s still festive and yet extremely chic. If you want to get really fancy, then a bit of red ribbon can be tied around the package or made into clever bows to complement a hand drawn picture, such as a bowtie on Santa.



Peace Be with Hue. For the tiny tots in the home, cover the package in blank white paper. Then attach a small package of crayons or markers for a “Color Me” themed gift. Kids will think Santa is too cool for this yule as they enjoy decorating their own Christmas present. It may slow them down long enough for a quick photo opportunity, but then again, maybe not.



Winter Wonderland. Cover the package in white paper. Tie it with a brown string in any fashion you please. Gather pine sprigs, pinecones, winter berries, and olive branches from your backyard or local park. Please be considerate of the wildlife and pick up things only from the ground and not off the trees. Stick a sprig of greenery in each of your package’s string. You have a modern and yet alluring winter package.



Pretty Paper. Deck your box in whatever paper of your choice. It can be white, black, brown or store bought shimmer and shine papers. Then print off pictures from Instagram and use them as precious gift tags. They can be of the person the gifts are for or a neat black and white winter scene with a name written underneath. It’s a unique way to personalize a gift and give it a little something magical as they unwrap.

That wasn’t that bad, was it? The good news is you only have to wrap this many presents once a year.




Elf Yo’ Self

Elfie is the newest member to many families these days. He makes all kinds of raucous in the home with crazy antics and surprising pranks. Elfie can be a great gauge for your kids (or husband) to measure how close they will be to the naughty or nice list this year. While Elfie is busy getting into trouble, the little critters are having so much fun keeping up with him or her that they are staying out of it. Let’s see what Elfie is up to lately…



Elfie is tired of walking. Being mischievous is a lot of work. Elfie has borrowed a beautiful Barbie saddle that’s placed on top of Charlie, the family dog. Elfie lures Charlie with treats on the end of a pole in order to lead him around. Elfie doesn’t have to walk so far and Charlie enjoys his snacks so it’s a mutual agreement.



Elfie says goodbye to Charlie because he has to hide 12 candy canes he stole from the Christmas tree before the humans wake up. He can’t wait to see their faces when they read the note he wrote telling them of his maniacal plan. They will never find them all! He is too good of a hider; he won first place in hide and seek at the North Pole Elves Convention.



Elfie is sad. It hasn’t snowed at all here this Christmas. He misses the snow and all the things you could play in it. He has an idea. He pulls down flour, marshmallows, sprinkles and all kinds of finds from the baking shelf and spreads them all over the counters. Elfie brings a little white Christmas to the family with flour snow angels and marshmallow snowmen. It’s starting to feel more like home here every minute.



The humans need a bit of help decorating. They only have ONE tree up. At the workshop Santa has a tree every 20 square feet and garland covering every wall. Elfie finds their wrapping paper. This will do. He starts with wrapping the cabinet doors. It looks pretty festive but it still isn’t enough. He then wraps the table. Much better. Might as well finish it off by wrapping the couch. Perfect. The humans will be so pleased with the redecorations.



It’s almost time for the family to wake. Better hurry. It’s time for Elfie to take a bath so he’s presentable to them. He has bits of paper stuck to his back and streaks of flour in his hair. He rushes to the sink and fills it with cotton ball bubbles. Ah yes. This is the life. He grabs an American Girl robe and a washcloth to wrap his hair. Now to relax after a full morning at work.




Versatile Holiday Décor

The holidays are here and now you have to drag down all your decorations from the attic. Wouldn’t it be nice if you could have less décor with just as much holiday flare? It is possible. Before you go out and buy a whole new collection of ornaments for each holiday motif, take a look at these clever creations that may save you space and money.

Get it on Etsy here:

Reversible holiday blocks are a precious way to say “Merry Christmas” or “Happy Thanksgiving.” One side has winter season and one side has fall. You just flip them around when one is over. You can get them custom made on Etsy.

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Find it on Etsy here!

Show a little spirit in your entryway or on your front door with a cute sign with stacked pumpkins on one side. When snow comes to town flip over for a pleasantly plump snowman.


Celebrate the upcoming events with a chalkboard countdown with Halloween or Thanksgiving on one side. On the other displays you favorite Christmas or Hanukkah countdown. It’s a fun way to keep your kids excited and engaged with holiday plans. They can even change the number themselves.


A cool way to yule is to have wooden pumpkin cutouts painted then reversed to show festive tree ornaments. These wood discs a person could easily paint themselves with little time and effort to make a big statement piece.

See all the options here!

Spruce up each season with these HOME letters that require a different shaped holiday symbol as the ‘O’ for every national celebration. There is a heart for Valentines, a maple leaf for autumn, a Frankenstein monster for Halloween, a bunny for Easter, and several others to choose from. You can keep this decoration up all year round. Everyone will compliment your highly functional piece and how quaint it is.

You won’t have to completely change your entire house around each passing season and fool everyone with your clever tricks.




Why Do We Give Thanks

When thinking of Thanksgiving, we usually think of the main event, which is FOOD. Let’s face it, sometimes that is the only reason you put up with Uncle Joe asking you what you plan to do with your life or those annoying reminders about how your sister’s son got into med school. So why do we do it? Why do we gather around and eat the same meal every year since you were old enough to gum your mashed potatoes to death. Let’s explore this subject further.



It all started a long time ago, 1620, when the pilgrims left England to find freedom of speech and religion in a new land safe from the scrutiny and tyranny of their homeland. The ship, Mayflower, left Plymouth and settled near now Cape Cod 66 days later. The pilgrims had a rough start of things. They barely left their ship that winter because the conditions were too harsh to create proper lodging. Many of them suffered from scurvy and infectious diseases. Only half lived to see the next spring.



Much to the settler’s surprise, they received a visit from an English speaking Native American named Abenaki. After their visit, Abenaki returned later with another English speaker of the Pawtuxet tribe, Squanto. Squanto became a big brother to the weak and defeated pilgrims. Squanto took them under his wing and taught them how to fish, how to gather maple from the trees, which plants were poisonous, and how to grow corn. Then he helped the newly settled villagers to create an alliance with a neighboring Wampanoag tribe. This union lasted over 50 blissful years and is sadly the only recorded harmonious period between English settlers and Native Americans.



In 1621, the Europeans hauled a successful crop. They were so ecstatic that they planned a large party for the Native Americans in celebration of their generosity. I hate to break it to you but there is no record of there being a cooked turkey at this feast. A shocking revelation, I’m sure. They did however go hunting and brought back three deer for the feast. Poor Bambi’s mom. Sigh and sniff. The party was a huge hit. They had so much fun that it lasted for three days. THREE. I can’t even party for 3 hours. The festivities became tradition and mainly celebrated in the North until Abraham Lincoln made it a National Holiday in 1863. Now we can all reap the benefits of an excuse to overindulge. It’s downright patriotic.





Get Your Piece of the Pie

Are you feeling it yet? That’s the rush of the holidays flying by. We are already past Halloween and now shortly coming upo­n Thanksgiving. This Thanksgiving you will be prepared. You will not let your Mom and Grandma down by forgetting to bring something to the table. You’re a grown adult now and you can contribute to the feast. How can you possibly do that with such a hectic schedule, you ask? That’s where we come in.



Pie Junkie is a delicious little place where you want something sweet and homemade. The best part about it is that you can order by the slice or a whole pie. They offer frozen and fully cooked pies for your convenience. They have multiple options that makes it difficult to choose just one. There is Apple Crumble, Pumpkin, Pumpkin Crumble, Drunken Turtle, Orange Bourbon Pecan, Coconut Cream, Macadamia Key Lime, Sweet Potato Crumble, and Bird Dog Buttermilk. Stop by here to pick up your preordered holiday pie before heading to Grandma’s and get a little slice for you for the road. The family will never know you didn’t make it yourself, unless you’re an honest person and give all the credit to Pie Junkie because you can’t tell a lie. In that case, good for you. *pat on back*



If you’re tired of the same ol’ traditional desserts, this year you can pick up a dozen of Green Goodies’ seasonal cupcakes. These cupcakes are made with top quality ingredients and various cupcakes available in gluten free and vegan options for the cousin with sensitivities. Seasonal cuppies are Caramel Apple Pie, Chocolate Peppermint, Peppermint Bark, and Pumpkin Spice. Mmmm.


Belle Kitchen is known for yummy donuts and macarons. In addition to that they have a few holiday pastries that may tempt even the saltiest of tongues at your gathering. The Rustic Plum Spice Bar looks festive and delightful. Belle herself requires it be paired with hot cocoa.


Sweet tooth still not satisfied? Grab a pastry from Ingrid’s. If Pie Junkie didn’t have the rare pie you were looking for, then Ingrid’s does. Rhubarb and Strawberry Rhubarb are options for the adventurous. Several fruit pies like Dutch Apple, Apricot, Triple Berry, and Peach for the traditional folk. You can also enjoy some dense cake-like treats of pumpkin bars and cherry pudding bars for a change of pace.

Either way you can’t go wrong with any of these great desserts. Make your family proud.




Get Your Ghost On

Ghostly times are upon us. We need to be prepared. We need to make plans to make sure that this October is the spookiest of scares yet. Some of the creepiest places and activities are right here in our own OKC. Read on for more details…if you dare…muahahaha.



Cycling Ghost Tour: Take a 7 to 8 mile tour of the most haunted places in Downtown OKC. Jeff Provine, The Ghost Guy, will thrill you with tales of sites such as the Myriad Gardens, Film Row, Bricktown, The Skirven, Carey Place, The Plaza District, and The Overholser Mansion. You can rent a $3.50 Spokies bike for the trip or bring your own helmet and bike. The cost is $20 per person for a 3-hour ride of stories. For more information visit



Cry “Sanctuary”: The Sanctuary is a year round haunted attraction that is sure to psychologically shake you. On its website you can read a full background of its beginnings that will prepare your mind for the story about to unfold. Each level has a specific storyline delving deeper and deeper into Dr. Hammond’s mysterious ways. For $25 each person you’ll have a 40 minute tour of the facilities. If you need a stiff drink to calm the nerves, there’s a full service bar and nightclub in the basement for the faint of heart. Food and refreshments also served on the grounds.


Sit and Screen: “It Came from the VCR!” is a film festival of old VCR days. Come in costume and enjoy frightful nostalgic films. In between films you can partake in free food or place an order at the bar. This event takes place Oct. 27th at the IAO Gallery. Admission is nada, zilch, zero. Prizes and best costume honors will be awarded so dress your best.



Creeping Cruise: On board a Haunt the River Cruise that’s quite a hyped specter. Delight in refreshing snacks, haunting sounds and tunes, some decked out décor, as well as a cash bar. It departs at Exchange Landing. It is $35 per adult. Cruise the river in true horror style while sipping a wicked cocktail.



Got Little Ghouls?: For those with little ghouls looking for something a bit more tame for the tiny beasts, then Haunt the Zoo may be a purrfect pounce. Each year the OKC Zoo holds a trick or treat experience that is a sight to see for young and old alike. It contains over 20 different themed booths with costumed volunteers handing out goodies. There are plenty of photo op stations for your little lion to explore.

Let loose and howl fiendishly into the night. You’ve been waiting all year for this.